A subject of white privilege, I liked the sound of “expat” much better than “immigrant.” One had panache, cachet, a spirited sense of ennui and adventure; the other conjured up black and white images of poor, huddled masses needing to be purified in the melting pot purée.
When we first arrived from the USA to seek residency and retire in Portugal, I self-identified as an expat … assuming it meant nothing more (or less) than an American abroad living in another country for an extended period.
From time to time, I was challenged and corrected on my presumption: Expats are here for a time or a purpose—a couple of months or years, studying or traveling or working. Then, they return home.
Immigrants, on the other hand, have no plans for returning whence they came; they’re looking forward rather than backward, their feet firmly planted and taking root in another country.
Travel isn’t just about the destination (immigrants and refugees). Getting away is a way of life for millions of people who take breaks for self-indulgence, employment opportunities, cultural enrichment, education, and other pursuits (expats).
We had no intention of returning to the USA when we left the country three months after Donald Trump’s inauguration.
What had begun as a knife cut to our souls soon led to ever more blood-letting—a lethal wound to our morals, values, and decency. Reading the handwriting on the wall, we fled for our lives.
Fugitives!
The United States had become a rogue nation, perhaps the world’s most powerful country to possess a massive arsenal of weapons of mass destruction commanded by a delusional despot who flaunted his favoritism, white nationalism, personal profiteering, and cruel inhumanity towards others.
The path to “greatness” included savage treatment and banishment of Native Americans; ownership of other people as personal property; denigrating migrant workers whom its landowners depended on for hard work; establishing internment camps for people with slanted eyes; and, more recently, isolating immigrants from their families—deporting many, while caging children in abominable conditions.
“Chronic ills – a corrupt political class, a sclerotic bureaucracy, a heartless economy, a divided and distracted public – had gone untreated for years. We had learned to live, uncomfortably, with the symptoms,” wrote George Packer in The Atlantic.
Violence, hatred, and malice became the chalice of communion among fanatics and their fans, flaming the fires of defiance and discontent.
Emboldened by the tone and tenor of tweets from the bully pulpit, the ugly American – once again – reared its head … with increasing violence, attacks, and confrontations against minorities and the marginalized: Immigrants. Black and brown skinned people. LGBTQ+ individuals. Jews. Muslims. Asian-Americans. People who speak different languages. In other words, the “others.”
Rather than expat or immigrant, we felt like refugees, who, “due to a well-founded fear of persecution, war, or violence, feel forced to flee their homeland.” To qualify as a refugee, a person must have solid grounds of a “well-founded fear” that they are facing real danger. Moreover, refugees should fear oppression, hostility, and/or violence so badly that it forces them to leave their country of origin and seek sanctuary elsewhere.
Elsewhere for us is Portugal with time spent in Spain.
Bruce H. Joffe is the author of Expat: Leaving the USA for Good and Spanish Towns, Portuguese Villages: A Journal for Expats and Immigrants.
Ugliest article I have read yet. Glad he is gone from the US, but sad that the Portuguese are now going to put up with the likes of him...a matter of time before he turns against you...
By Donn Rance from USA on 03 Aug 2023, 16:36
You lost me at “A subject of white privilege.” It is obvious us you are a left leaning, woke American, the kind I want to get away from. I moved here to get away from folks like you. Please don’t bring your bad ideas and wokeness to this country.
By Sterling from Lisbon on 03 Aug 2023, 17:04
I lived through the Trump administration, and yes, he sucked, but so does Biden. This article is way overblown. Refugee? Really? That's extreme. My family and I are moving to Portugal to escape the woke takeover of our country where we spend more time in the classroom talking about race and gender than math and science. Politics in the united states has replaced sports. Everyone has a team, they are both terrible, and people endlessly bicker about it. I'm hopeful we can escape some of that in Portugal, and I hope the left liberal agenda doesn't follow us over here.
By Brian from USA on 03 Aug 2023, 20:55
This article is an insult. How delusional and arrogant of the author to call himself a refugee! I deal directly with refugees families from Syria, Somalia, South Sudan, and the Ukraine in my line of work. Whatever hardships he dealt with in the United States by Trump being elected are completely insignificant compared to those experienced by actual refugees.
By Fernando Gomes Semedo from Other on 03 Aug 2023, 22:49
I would add “climate refugees.” I wonder if there are statistics on migration patterns including reasons.
By HD from Algarve on 04 Aug 2023, 07:27
Stopped reading after the first sentence. What an insufferable article.
Exactly the type of American I would not want as my neighbour.
I was in a famous park here in Lisbon a few weeks ago, when I see a middle aged American couple. He wore a purple t-shirt, with the word FEMINIST stamped across the chest.
Was that you Bruce?
By Hart from Lisbon on 04 Aug 2023, 07:43
We don’t need that sort of whining, intolerant, self-pitying, moralising wokery in Portugal, one of the few places left in the Western world not yet invaded by this liberal pest. There are plenty of ’sanctuary’ states in the US for the wokerati, such as California, where they can feel safe from other people’s views and slap each others’ backs in mutual congratulation of everybody having all the ’correct’ opinions while productive people and companies are fleeing the state and those who remain are aggressed in the excrement- and needle-filled streets full of riff-raff. Democracy means that we have to tolerate that we can’t always have our own candidates elected. That doesn’t mean that the other camp’s candidate is a despot. It would be totalitarian if only wokes had the right to elect their candidate, but intelligence often seems in short supply on that front. It’s easier just to mindlessly follow the religion of wokery and bask in that warm fuzzy feeling that comes from extreme self-righteousness and hatred of anyone with different opinions. Go home to your liberal hellhole and leave us in peace here.
By T F from Porto on 04 Aug 2023, 10:26
Complete and utter self-serving drivel.
By Kate from UK on 04 Aug 2023, 10:34
This must be a poor attempt at humor.
By John from USA on 04 Aug 2023, 10:34
A bit esoteric for me, but not sure what the hysterical comments are all about, everyone has their reasons for leaving their home country. I am guessing that at least some of the commenters are ex-pats (refugees!) who had, what they believe, are solid reasons for “evacuating” to Portugal. Why should your reasons be any more valid than anyone else’s? In fact, it could be argued that your type of intolerance is what drove Bruce to leave the US in the first place. It seems weird that you would choose to move to a left leaning country with permissive views on LGBTQ rights, drug use, euthanasia, health care and abortion! Still some work to do on racial issues but becoming far more tolerant. Maybe its you that should have parked your right leaning views at the door before walking through.
By Stuart Wood from Algarve on 04 Aug 2023, 10:34
The USA has been presided over by two geriatric presidents. I hope that the writer of this article uses his time better to learn Portuguese and look beyond theAlgarve to see how the poor people of the country live.
By Geoffrey Ryder from UK on 04 Aug 2023, 10:56
Very good article ! Perfectly written ! I am not an American but I lived and worked in California! I know how it feels… Some good American friends will also come and settle here. Sad some reactions of some Americans here… 1 message fir you : we do not need Trump people here and far right!!! Please leave and go back ! Adapt yourself or disappear ! Thanks
By Pierre from Algarve on 04 Aug 2023, 11:27
Do the people leaving comments about wokeness know they are living in a country with a Socialist government? Are they aware of the strict gun laws compared to the US? Are they aware taxes is high because it pays for things like universal healthcare not more military might? Do they know higher education is affordable because of the government investing in education? The US is failing because it is a country bought and paid for by cooperate interest. I think a lot in this article is spot on as to why we left in 2019. I consider myself an immigrant and I am thankful that I am allowed to live in Portugal. And as far as wokeness goes the definition is to be aware of and actively attentive to important facts and issues (especially issues of racial and social justice). If treating others with respect and dignity is something these folks escaped the US to avoid, I find that very sad.
By Marie Dragone from Alentejo on 04 Aug 2023, 12:12
Click bait stuff surely, I have been reading this rubbish from this (is it a couple?) for a few months now. Why don't they shut the %^$£ up and just get on with enjoying life in Portugal? I guess they?/he?/she are getting paid to 'generate interest' in this publication....
By Glenn Greatwood from Algarve on 04 Aug 2023, 13:07
I agree with all the above... Didn't bother to finish reading this garbage. Fellow Americans like this we can do without.
By Janne from Other on 04 Aug 2023, 13:34
Reading the comments on here seems the anti-woke bullies are infiltrating my beautiful country. Only trump supporters and the likes of people with same mentality, use the term "woke." Portugal is woke. It worries and cares for its people. It doesn't barate others for their view points like some of these people here commenting. That there is one of the many reasons that the USA has turned into a burning pile of refuse. Don't bring your American ideologies here. They're not welcome.
By José from Beiras on 04 Aug 2023, 14:00
Thanks Bruce! NIce to see your great writing on this site, especially the day after celebrating the clown’s 3rd indictment. My husband and I started making our plans to leave the US during the clown’s 1st campaign, we trusted Micheal Moore’s prediction that he would indeed take power. We also chose Portugal. Disheartening to read the aggressive comments here, but my faith in the welcoming and inclusive people of Portugal to temper said aggression remains. I applaud you for making the difficult decision to leave your home country in the hopes of living a more sane, healthy and peaceful life with your partner. It sound like you succeeded. Looking forward to reading more from you. Keep it coming!
By Anikka from Lisbon on 04 Aug 2023, 16:25
Why are so many commenters threatened by one person's opinion?
By USRefugee from Lisbon on 04 Aug 2023, 16:29
From the tone and tenor of the comments here, I rest my case.
By Bruce Joffe from Alentejo on 04 Aug 2023, 17:03
I agree with the comments that the use of the word "refugee" from America is way over the top. While I believe that there are groups in the U.S. that could be forced to flee in the event of far-right takeover that has not happened yet and to try to compare yourself to people who are actually fleeing life threatening situations in their countries is incredibly pretentious. I prefer to refer to my status as one of an immigrant as I really have to intention of returning to live in the U.S. Too much hate going on there.
By Greg Shill from Algarve on 04 Aug 2023, 17:21
The wokeness from America has spread out for ages in European countries particular in the UK.
Double standards & double speak are rampant like diseases in so many societies; they can say anything they want, exaggerate, twist or re-characterise then do harm; when you dare voice your opinion or simply point out facts+truth, you will get your head bite off by those wokes, especially younger ones, some do have power, so be careful.
I presume Comments made above are people who don’t speak Portuguese or cannot have in depth discussions with the locals; imagine you understand perfectly the local language (in any country), you might encounter someone like Bruce in PT.
By helen from Other on 04 Aug 2023, 17:30
The publisher warned me to expect negative comments. I can't believe the hatred and malice of some people. So many assumptions about me. No, we don't live in the Algarve but in central Portugal, a town outside of Castelo Branco, and small home in an Aletejano village near the border at Badajoz. Indeed, I do speak Portuguese because -- unlike many who live in tourist meccas and coastal cities, most of our neighbors and shopkeepers don't speak English, but Portuguese. If you cannot understand "satire" and the use of metaphors (i.e., "fugitives") in terms of commentary, I guess the cannibals have no one left to devour except each other ... and me!
By Bruce Joffe from Alentejo on 04 Aug 2023, 18:32
As an American, I sincerely apologize to the Portuguese people that this person is now residing in Portugal.
By Paul D from Other on 04 Aug 2023, 18:53
Hypocritical, right leaning, commenters who move to Portugal to escape “wokeness”! Seems like they are completely clueless about the country that they have moved to and, in a lot of cases, progressive socialist policies. Seems they want it both ways and are willing to suddenly become “immigrant” friendly and take advantage of the shared social systems (bet they don’t even file taxes here!) and low cost of living when they are the “immigrants!” Should be no surprise that these views are simply driven by self interest rather than any benefit to the country they now live in.
By Stuart Wood from Algarve on 05 Aug 2023, 07:46
Awww, and now poor wittwe Brucy feels offended and aggressed by 'hatred and malice' and thinks we're going to eat him! And then they wonder why this new leftist religion is described as a mental disorder...
To this I just have to say:
1. victimhood and self pity, combined with belief in ones' moral superiority is totally on brand for your type - zero surprises here, you're all very predictable and all exactly the same
2. you speak about 'hatred', and I reply to you "the truth is hate for those who hate the truth" - and we all know what the truth is: 'woke' does not build, it does not innovate, it does not develop., it certainly does not bring together.
'Woke' destroys, cancels, censors and divides.
It's destructive and tyrannical, disturbing and sick. Nobody is happier with 'woke' policies, societies are getting angrier, more mentally disturbed, divided and perverse and depraved.
3. if you do not wish to be surrounded by malicious and hateful people, perhaps San Francisco or Portland would suit you better? Lots of kumbaya and love over there, lovely places where loving people live together harmoniously in the beautiful utopia they themselves created.
Biden's in charge now and has been for 3 years. Why are you still here?
By Hart from Lisbon on 05 Aug 2023, 10:54
Excellent article and having recently been introduced to an America woman and listened to her reasons for supporting Tramp's current campaign for President, I am not surprised that the writer exited the crumbling empire. Sad, judging by many of the comments, that he has been followed by the very people he was trying to get away from!
By Greg from Other on 05 Aug 2023, 13:15
Thank you, Stuart Wood.
By Bruce Joffe from Alentejo on 05 Aug 2023, 13:23
Wow. You should be thrilled now that the senile head of a crime family is finally in power.
By Michael Richard Jones from USA on 05 Aug 2023, 16:01
I stopped reading after his soul started bleeding and his hatred started spewing malicious hatred. Lethal is reading a full page of his overly woke exaggerations.
By George from Algarve on 05 Aug 2023, 17:05
Thank you for such a well-written, well-thought-out article, Bruce.
From a Northern Portuguese to you: It amazes me, the level of sheer stupidity in these comments. I really wish the imbeciles would go back under the rock they came from. Termites... infesting our beautiful country with their far-right, hatred and intolerance. There's no room for you here. Makes me wonder why they are infesting our beautiful country. These clowns are so stupid they don't realize Portugal is a leftist country, with an actual socialist government. And they wonder why people seem self-righteous around them.
Please leave Portugal and go back to Murica you looney right-wing fools! Nobody wants you here, and I'm speaking from the locals perspective. Take you ***** attitudes about others and your misguided idiotic take on "wokeness" the hell home.
By Jules from Other on 06 Aug 2023, 01:57
Getting past the terms ''expat/immigrant/refugees'', Bruce is spot on. He obviously touched many sensitive nerves. The really sad thing in all of this is that the US have recently discovered a great country they have not destroyed yet. So here they come, as if this great country, and the rest of the world for that matter, needs them.
By JC Audet from Lisbon on 06 Aug 2023, 13:52
Thank you Jules, Stuart, Marie, Pierre, Greg, USRefugee, Anikka, and José for understanding. It's good to know that there still are some people with common sense, eyes to see, and heads on their shoulders.
By Bruce Joffe from Alentejo on 06 Aug 2023, 14:45
I’m writing this to dissipate (from myself) the anger, hatred, defensiveness, and even adolescent taunting I read in these comments. I’m going to return to reading news and opinions in the Portuguese press in Portuguese, however laboriously, and continue to relish my Portuguese friendships and in integrating into my new country and culture. I love Portugal and I thought this opinion piece could offer some smiles to an American friend who is also planning on moving here but instead of reading more anecdotes of Portuguese kindness, I walked onto a field of land mines of animosity. The Portuguese respondents have spoken. Many of the rest of you haven’t left the United States in your minds and hearts and you brought your battle here where it isn’t even relevant.
Relax. Enjoy this warm culture, the exquisite wines, laughter, slaps on the shoulder, hearty food, rich history – how many Afonsos reigned? Let your hearts sink into the story of Salazar’s Estado Novo, the effects of which still linger. And feel in the Fado songs the yearning to return home in the souls of the Portuguese people who leave to make a living in another country. You don’t have to fight here.
By Carlos Stelmach from Porto on 06 Aug 2023, 19:48
Thank YOU Bruce for the article; I moved here from Miami for all the same reasons you described including climate refugee although I am an immigrant yet understood your use of some of the terms that people didn't agree with. In Florida DeSantis and the National Rifle Assn. changed the gun laws through the "unwoke" of Republican Legislature to allow 12 and up to purchase a gun without a permit or training. The mass shootings (4 or more people) are at 178 so far this year happening in schools, churches, synagogues, hospitals, supermarkets and the streets; am I a refugee or do I need to wait until Im shot going about daily life? Those who have not lived there all their 55 years and experienced the racism, hatred and lawlessness you can feel nowadays since "The Trump Coup" shouldn't be here making comments like the comment listed by Hart #1 about victimized people; he is perfectly describing Trump who takes in millions for support by the commenters who use the term woke not knowing what the definition is because the hear it on the Fox Channel which is NOT legally a news station or bound to broadcasting the truth. Fox is an "infotainment" station not governed by The Federal Communications Agency like all the other news stations so they lie all the time for viewers ratings and for people to invest in their stocks but those unhappy commenters above are the fools who believe it; they've been scammed and THEY moved to Portugal to get away from "woke" lol! Look at the Socialist country you're in! As for Mr. Hart who is always telling people that he thinks are woke to go back to the US or in my case "Don't come here, we don't want you" I'm not even certain he belongs here.
My advice to you Mr. Hart is you seem to be very unhappy with your life here and never have anything positive to say about any article he's posted on in the 20 months I've been reading TPN, the good, positive people I've met here don't mind an opinion but your negative comments are filled with the same sarcasm and hatred that we left behind, the "unwoke" crowd so get your as. out of Portugal and we can replace you and those others above you enjoy with people that are respectful and considerate of others that you misguidedly avert the dictionary explanation of "woke." You don't deserve Portugal and we don't need that self-righteous and serving type here; that's not what the people of Portugal like when I show them your comments; they think you're FROM the US, a forever Trumper. How could anyone ever respect a man that did to the country what he's done and is still subverting? Read Bruce's article again man and see if you can empathize or agree with some things there.
Hart is not a good name for someone that lacks one.
By wesley from Porto on 07 Aug 2023, 00:55
Revision to comment I sent last night, 6.08: I’m writing this to dissipate (from myself) the hostility I read in these comments. I’m going to return to reading news and opinions in the Portuguese press in Portuguese, however laboriously, and continue to relish my Portuguese friendships and in integrating into my new country and culture. I love Portugal and I thought this opinion piece could offer some smiles to an American friend who is also planning on moving here but instead of reading more anecdotes of Portuguese kindness, I walked onto a field of land mines of animosity. The Portuguese respondents have spoken. Many of the rest of you haven’t left the United States in your minds and hearts and you brought your battle here where it isn’t even relevant.
Relax. Enjoy this warm culture, the exquisite wines, laughter, slaps on the shoulder, hearty food, rich history – how many Afonsos reigned? Let your hearts sink into the story of Salazar’s Estado Novo, the effects of which still linger. And feel in the Fado songs the yearning to return home in the souls of the Portuguese people who leave to make a living in another country. You don’t have to fight here.
By Carlos Stelmach from Porto on 07 Aug 2023, 06:19
I agree for the most part with Bruce, the writer of this article. I must say as being 74, and having grown up in a conservative state, Texas, I know that these commenters who use the word “woke” in a negative sense all would prefer no one exist that is different from them. Those who say these things, however, have been manipulated and misguided by the current version of the Republican Party. These people will defend the rapist, thief, liar and general criminal that is donald trump and, thus, have lost their humanity and any belief or respect for the rule of law. Trump deserves no more or less than all of us when his trials begin, but he thinks he is above us all. If convicted he deserves the most rotten prison in the US.
By Joe Tryby from USA on 09 Aug 2023, 04:09
"Woke" simply means that the person or organization so described "woke up" and learned something about people, history, culture, science, or whatever else that they had not previously known. In the best cases, it means that they might behave differently in light of their new-found knowledge than they had before. To be entirely clear, it is such a sloppy description of a state of being that it could apply as well to someone who has just embraced a baseless conspiracy as to someone who has read some reliable history or cultural analysis. "Wake up, sheeple!" is the clarion call of unhinged talk show hosts. It could apply as well to people who once believed that enslaved people were treated well and respectfully but learned through studying the mountain of evidence that buying people in Africa, transporting them on a voyage that resulted in half to two-thirds of the enslaved dying, being robbed of their ancestral homes, families, communities, names, freedom, and right to live free is most definitely NOT good treatment of people. "Woke" is good if the person awake now has a better understanding of how people treat each other and how that needs to change to modes of respect and care.
If you are not awake, if you do not accept that some people in the U.S. and in every country in the world behave badly towards those who have been disenfranchised for one reason or another, who are bullied for who they are, then one has to wonder why being asleep to injustices is preferred by you and those who attack the state of wakefulness, the state of knowledge, poorly summarized by the word "woke." How are others being awake a threat to you? Why does that cause you to attack Mr. Joffe and others in this comment section with such venom?
By John Davis from Other on 09 Aug 2023, 10:14
If Mr. Joffe cannot afford us the courtesy of leaving his culture wars on the other side of the Atlantic, he could at least spare us from his overly victimized rants.
By Dan Aberle from Lisbon on 09 Aug 2023, 16:21
Than you Mr. John Davis for a succint explanation of the abstruse collective noun "woke" and for your concise rejection of such asinine criticism.
By Cavaleiro R. from Other on 09 Aug 2023, 21:57
Thank you for sharing what is going on in US. I'm amazed and choked with the number of aggressive and unemotional comments by the far right. Sadly, it seems some reside in this beautiful, peaceful paradise: Portugal. You all are better off going back home. The people in Portugal respect and have feelings for others.
By norma from USA on 14 Aug 2023, 20:25